by Emmanuel Sowah
We live in a time where opinions are shared freely, emotions run high, and social media has become the new battlefield for ideas and egos. Unfortunately, I’ve seen a troubling trend—young people tearing each other down and publicly insulting political figures in the name of “showing face” or proving loyalty.
But I ask—at what cost?
It may feel empowering to “win” an online debate or roast someone with a sharp comment. You might even earn a few claps, laughing emojis, or be hailed as bold by your peers. But often, what you’re truly doing is posting your future away.
Let me be honest with you: in Ghana, politics is deeply intertwined with opportunities. Whether we like it or not, many of the decisions that shape our careers, businesses, and progress are made by people in political spaces. And here’s the uncomfortable truth—they don’t forget. And very often, they don’t forgive.
Many of these politicians may smile at you when you meet, pretending they don’t remember that viral post or that rude comment you made. But trust me, they do. They keep receipts. They forward messages. They screenshot, discuss, and store it mentally. And when it’s time to decide who gets that opportunity, they quietly withdraw your name.
All the while, you’re left wondering what went wrong.
You may not like someone. You may disagree with their politics or actions. That’s fair. And yes, we must hold leaders accountable. But do it with decorum. Criticize policies, not personalities. Stand for your values, but don’t compromise your name. Because long after the dust settles, your name is all you truly own.
The same online comment or video you post out of frustration today could be what costs you that scholarship, that job, or that appointment tomorrow.
Ironically, the people you mock may one day hold the door open—or shut it—on your next big move. Not out of revenge, but because credibility matters. Character matters. And in the real world, integrity quietly outranks online noise.
Yes, some will give you airtime or data in return for your loyalty online. But when the real tables are set, it’s those with discipline, vision, and self-control who get a seat—not those who are loudest or most brutal.
So please, think carefully.
Ask yourself: Who really rises in the end? Among your peers, who is moving forward? Those who insulted their way through life, or those who carried themselves with grace?
Be firm in your truth. Speak your mind. But never throw away your future for momentary applause.
You’re being watched—even when it seems no one is listening.
Don’t be a pawn. Don’t trade your destiny for fleeting attention.
Protect your name. It’s your passport to tomorrow.
Enjoy your weekend. Reflect deeply.
Dr. Alex Ampaabeng
Former Deputy at the Ministry of Finance,Facebook page
